• ippy

    For my older daughter’s birthday this summer, my husband and I bought her a small Instant Pot. With her long hours at the farm, I figured she might find it useful — pop something in the pot, supper is served— but for the first couple months, she didn’t use it. Said she didn’t know how. There are recipes and instructions online, I pointed out. Finally, after much prodding, she took the plunge and made some green beans.

    She hasn’t looked back since. 

    Listening to my daughter rave about her instapot, I started wondering: should I get one? It seemed a little unnecessary. Excessive, too. Did I really need yet another appliance cluttering up my kitchen? But I had the same questions pre-rice cooker, and now I absolutely love that blessed appliance. 

    ***

    A few weeks ago, our Puerto Rican friends found, and bought, an adorable little house with hardwood floors and big windows and that weekend, we helped them move.

    There’s something magical about building a nest, making a home. It (almost) made me want to go find a new home so I could move, too!

    ***

    That new house triggered a whole series of guests and events. Her parents and brother(s) came for a week; we had them all over for supper one night and then, a couple nights later, they had us over for supper in the new house. They’d transformed the place. I flew through the house, looking in all the corners, oohing and aahing. 

    Right before we sat down to supper, they surprised us with a large wrapped box — a thank-you for helping them move, they said. 

    Inside? An Instant Pot!

    Apparently, she’d heard me chattering about my instapot questions the day we’d helped them move and remembered! Her thoughtfulness totally made my day.

    And then we feasted: Chiro’s chicken soup, mountains of tostones (because they’ve learned that, with our family, boatloads of tostones are a requirement), and s’mores over the firepit.

    Back home, I left the pot in its packaging. She’d kept the receipt in case I wanted to swap it for one with different features, so I needed to do more research. Plus, I had the rest of Thanksgiving week to get through.

    Backing up a day…

    ***

    Monday, my niece came work with me. A good while back, I’d invited her to shadow me for a day, but then the pandemic happened; now — vaccinated and free — she was finally cashing in on the offer.

    She egg-washed pie crusts, blended pumpkin pie filling, cracked eggs, opened cans, and washed dishes. 

    Up to my eyeballs in Thanksgiving pie orders, I was so glad to have her. 

    ***

    Wednesday morning, I was back in the bakery for the final push.

    photo credit: customer/friend Jen

    Also, that was the morning my son and his fiancé went to the courthouse for their marriage license and then stopped by the bakery to show it off. My coworker snapped a photo of our celebratory group hug. 

    photo credit: Rachel

    ***

    Thanksgiving Day, my husband, younger son, and I went to the bakery, lots of pre-made cookie dough in hand, and cranked out hundreds of wedding cookies.

    Fast, efficient, DONE. I’m not sure I’ll ever be able to tolerate single-oven cookie baking again. 

    ***

    The cookies squirreled away in our home freezers, we drove back into town to celebrate Thanksgiving in our friends’ new house, along with half the Puerto Rican population (or so it seemed).

    photo credit: my younger daughter

    Her grandparents had come from Puerto Rico, her uncle’s family from Pennsylvania, and her other uncle’s family had flown up from Puerto Rico as a surprise (and stayed with us for some of the time). Also, an aunt and her husband, the realtor and his wife who’d helped them find the house, a friend from the dog park, us. 

    ***

    The next day, a friend came to make cheese: Bel Paese and fresh mozzarella.

    She brought me some fantastic mushroom jerky from ‘shrooms she’d foraged. My younger son went wild over it.

    Then in the afternoon, Thanksgiving at my parents’ house.

    My younger daughter and niece made the desserts. We played Take One, plus a bunch of variations. I planted myself in a soft chair in the middle of the action, drank coffee and ate pie, and moved as little as possible. 

    ***

    Saturday morning — I’m telling you: the week was a marathon — we (and some of our Puerto Rican friends) were back at my parents’ place for a woodcutting party. 

    We worked for a couple hours, splitting and hauling wood. I drove the truck (once) and tossed lots of wood and set up logs for my husband to split. No trees fell (directly) on anyone and only three mauls got broken. 

    And then my dad made pancakes for the multitudes outside in the freezing cold. 

    It was perfect. 

    ***

    The rest of the weekend, I sat in front of the fire, recuperating from all the people with a good book, lots of tea, some writing. 

    Oh! And researching instapots! My husband and I dove in deep, reading all the reviews. Did I want an eight-quart instead of a six? Would I wish I had the sous vide feature, and the yogurt maker? Did I really need an air fryer? Etc, etc. 

    We finally decided to keep it because: 1) I need to start downsizing my cooking, 2) I don’t really need to do sous vide, and cooking with plastic doesn’t sound healthy anyway, 3) I already have a good system for making yogurt, and 4) the air fryer unit is detachable so, if/when I’m not using it, it won’t be in the way. Plus, it’s a freaking awesome Ippy!

    My husband unpacked my new toy and together we did my first and only instapot cooking thus far: the recommended test run — a pressure-cooked pot of water — which involved much nervous watching, a good deal of arguing, and a few panicked texts to my daughter.

    Me: I’m so nervous.
    Her: It’s really simple!
    Me: It’s taking forever to heat water.
    Her: It doesn’t.

    (break)

    Me: I successfully pressure cooked water!
    Her: So proud. 

    And that, my friends, is a long, roundabout way of getting to the point of this post which is: what are your favorite Ippy recipes? I’m especially interested in all things pressure cooked (it’s a big new world, people!), like beef, veggies, and dried beans.

    I have an Ippy, yippeeeee!

    This same time, years previous: the quotidian (11.30.20), Chattanooga Thanksgiving of 2015, pot of red beans, butternut squash pesto cheesecake, steel-cut oatmeal.

  • the quotidian (11.29.21)

    Quotidian: daily, usual or customary;
    everyday; ordinary; commonplace

    ‘Tis the season for kale. Lots and lots of kale.

    After a short ride with these hotties, I smelled real nice.

    I begged a turkey carcas from my mom: mmm, broth.

    Milk buckets and the Moth podcast, which he is addicted to.

    It’s a lot heavier than it looks.

    Matchy-matchy: my neice and the Thanksgiving pies.

    Look who came to see me at the bakery!

    My son’s fiancé found her along the road.

    Insta show-and-tell.

    From my dad.

    I have no idea what his new toy is for, but he seems to like it.

    When the night sky takes flight.

    This same time, years previous: Thanksgiving in the sun, how we homeschool: Jen, 2019 garden stats and notes, Thanksgiving of 2018, Chattanooga Thanksgiving of 2017, Chattanooga Thanksgiving of 2016, apple crumb pie, the day before, kale pomegranate salad, monster cookies.

  • what I don’t do

    Recently, someone walked by me at an event and said, “Oh, I’m so glad to see you sitting down! You’re always doing so much, so it’s nice to see you resting for a bit.”

    I laughed a little, and probably said something about how I sit down a lot, not to worry, please, but as per usual, that comment got me thinking: how is it that I write so openly about my life, a life in which I am fiercely, vocally, and unapologetically protective of my down time (time that I measure in days, not hours), and yet people still think I’m go-go-go? 

    photo taken a couple months ago

    I’ve tried to set the record straight, writing about my boredom and the books I read and the unpressured hours spent in front of the fire tapping away on my computer, but it’s no use. People, including my own mother (but not my husband or kids — they know the truth) still think I’m crazy-nuts busy.

    Therefore, I’ve concluded that the only reason people think I do so much is because I write about The Things That Happen (because the things that don’t happen aren’t interesting, yo). BUT I MAINTAIN: If you wrote down all the things you did — told stories about them, took photographs — you, too, would look like a whirling dervish. 

    photo taken yesterday (the book made me angry, and not in the way the author intended, either)

    It’s all about the spin, see? Take Wednesday night this week, for example. That night when my husband came home, I was listening to French café music (because Kate said to), drinking red wine, parbaking a crust for a (future) quiche, making meat hand pies, pulling a baked mac and cheese from the oven and putting pans of not-finished granola back in, flipping the camemberts (take two), and salting a Tomme cheese. 

    Sounds busy, right? But here’s another perspective:

    When my husband got home, he stretched out on the sofa and listened to me rant about a (very strange) phone call I’d gotten that afternoon. Then, while we waited for the kids to come to the table for supper, I plopped down in the rocker to sip my wine while he read the post I’d written that day. After supper, my son vacuumed, my daughter washed the dishes, and my husband hunkered down at his desk for some computer time; I reclined on the sofa with a book. Later, my son and I played several games of Rummy (because he’d been begging for several days), and then I read out loud to the kids. The kids disappeared upstairs, I did some more reading, and my husband fell asleep doing the crossword puzzle. 

    Here’s the irony: If I’d written about and photographed those calm, do-nothing moments, it would’ve made them feel like Somethings. Documenting imbues things with an outsized (or maybe appropriately sized?) importance. THIS IS THE PROBLEM. 

    Maybe it’d be helpful to look at it another way.

    photo taken back in the Spring

    Yes, I do things like make cheese and write and manage the household and work in a bakery and stay at home with the kids (who aren’t home very much anymore) and keep a budget and go running and cook, but there’s a whole heck of a lot more I’m not doing. Some things, like not caring for young children or dealing with a health crisis are due to my current life stage and/or good fortune. Other things, like not working full time or mowing the lawn or maintaining the vehicles or cleaning the house is due to teaming up with the people around me and/or lifestyle decisions and/or good fortune.

    But it’s when it comes to my personal choices that the list gets really long. Some of the cool, fun, good, interesting things I don’t (typically) do include, but are not limited to, the following:

    *travel
    *listen to music
    *follow sports
    *sew
    *keep up with fashion
    *play an instrument
    *eat out
    *read the newspaper
    *stay up late
    *hunt and butcher
    *take classes
    *shop (except for groceries)
    *decorate the house
    *meditate
    *play with my kids
    *make my husband’s lunch
    *go to church
    *send birthday cards
    *get pedicures
    *dye my hair
    *comb my hair
    *floss
    *have many close friends
    *teach my (homeschooled) kids
    *fix things
    *go on dates with my husband

    While the first two lists are both humbling and grounding, there’s something sort of magical about making the third list. By naming what I’m not doing, I can better identify what I want to do. Also, it kinda creates a snowball effect: If I’ve made all these choices, then what are some other choices I might want to consider?

    Now your turn. What’s on your don’t-do list?

    This same time, years previous: fight poem, the quotidian (11.18.19), the quotidian (11.19.18), spiced applesauce cake with caramel glaze, in my kitchen: noon, sock curls: our latest infatuation, the quotidian (11.19.12), orange cranberry bread.