• the smartest thing I did

    Last November and December, I spent hours poring over reading lists and Amazon reviews, and then I slapped down a hundred bucks in exchange for a small stack of brand new books. Thanks to that planning, we have had a whole string of top-quality books to keep alive our bedtime tradition of reading aloud.

    In retrospect, it was the smartest thing I did.

    Esperanza Rising was the first book we read, and we couldn’t have picked a more fitting one to start with. It’s all about a rich Mexican girl who ends up, due to tragic circumstances, immigrating North and becoming a migrant worker. Her distaste for her lower standard of living closely mirrored what my children were going through. It was perfect.

    The Phantom Tollbooth was a bit deep for the youngers, but my older son thought it was hysterical. Also, it gave us The Island of Conclusions (a place we jump to it on a daily basis). Summer of the Monkeys was a fun, light read. The Mostly True Adventures of Homer P. Figg made us laugh. Shakespeare and the 7th grade came together in The Wednesday Wars.

    Beautifully written, informative, and entertaining, The Evolution of Calpurnia Tate hit home on a deeper level for my children. In the book, Calpurnia has a science-loving grandfather called “Granddaddy.” In real life, my children have a science-loving grandfather called Granddaddy. The connection was so startling, so real, that my younger daughter begged me in tears not to say the word Granddaddy while reading—it made her too homesick. But I persisted and she acclimated.

    A couple nights ago we started Lizzie Bright and the Buckminster Boy. Next up is The View from Saturday.

    I brought other books, too. For me, I brought This Rough Magic, Blood, Bones, and Butter, My Berlin Kitchen, Dignity, and An Everlasting Meal. For my son, I brought All Quiet on the Western Front, Roll of Thunder, Hear My Cry, and Touching Spirit Bear. Other books have found their way onto our shelves via generous neighbors and blog readers.

    My son is branching out from the popular teen books on his Kindle to some of the classics like Twenty Thousand Leagues Under the Sea and some of our more adult reads such as The Story of Edgar Sawtelle and The Boy Who Harnessed The Wind. That last book, plus Foreign to Familiar, a book I read to the older two children, so impressed him that he wrote to his friends suggesting they, too, read the books. And just this very morning, he copied down the name of the boy who harnessed the wind so he could watch his TED talk during his computer class at school.

    In conclusion, three thoughts:
    1. The books I brought, along with a few that
    some friends have shared, will be enough to get us through our time
    here.  I wish we had more books, of course. I miss having ridiculous quantities of
    literary entertainment at our fingertips. But you know what? It’s been enough. I don’t know what to make of it. It’s proof, I guess, that I really do come from a culture of excess.

    2. If traveling, take books. 

    3. The high quality of the reads and the great fun we have gotten
    from them make me wonder if it is worth spending a hundred bucks each
    year on some brand new, carefully selected books even if I don’t plan to go anywhere. It’d be like menu
    planning, but with a literary twist. What do you think? Do you have a tried and true method for selecting your reading material?

  • the quotidian (6.10.13)

    Quotidian: daily, usual or customary;
    everyday; ordinary; commonplace 


    The corn gets really high here. 
     Perhaps to counterbalance all the short people?

     

    While our neighbors are gone, we get to care for their horse.
    Which makes for one very exuberant girl.

     

    Rock painting.

     

    What the sky looks like every afternoon.

     

    The cheese man.

     

    Evening art.

  • last Sunday morning


    *One child stays home in bed, thanks to a persistent stomach bug.

    *Before we leave, my younger son escapes to the neighbors’ house to watch a movie, the stinker.

    *The girls wear their K’ekchi’ outfits. My older daughter worries that by doing so she might offend the locals. I assure her it’s fine. And indeed, heads turn to stare and people grin broadly—it feels like the whole world is beaming on my girls.

    *On the bus, I offer to hold a baby of a stuck-standing father. The toddler relaxes against me immediately. Then my lap feels warm and I start worrying that he has peed on me. (He didn’t.)

    *At church, my younger daughter (a.k.a. Miss Independent) slips away to sit with some other girl.

    *It is yet another healing service (we’re sensing a first-Sunday-of-every-month pattern).

    *They clear chairs, the healers scrub their hands with disinfectant lotion, and the music starts. People surge forward to the alter.

    *For 20 minutes the music plays. It is so loud that babies start crying. It’s so loud that the water in the water bottle vibrates. It’s so loud that I wonder if my eardrum just popped. (It hadn’t.)

    *The sound system has a persistent feedback problem. The shrill shrieks keep coming. No one flinches.

    *Then the jumping and wailing begins. My older daughter keeps a tally of the fallen. She yells in my ear things like, “Another one’s going!” and “Six!” and “Two at one time!”

    *The young adults scurry back and forth, catching the slain, covering them with peach-colored, lacy shawls, and then helping them to their feet when they come to.

    *At the end of the service, the noise dies down, but then we hear a man pray-yelling. “Oh dear, are they starting up again?” I ask my daughter. “There’s an old woman laying in the aisle,” she reports back. “She won’t get up.” Pause. “Maybe she’s dead.”

    *On the way home water keeps dripping on my foot. At least I hope it’s water, but it’s totally dry outside and I can’t figure out the source. Maybe the woman in front just peed? (Which is utterly preposterous, but the best non-logical solution I can come up with.) And then I realize that my empty water bag wasn’t quite empty. Oh.

    *Town is packed with Sunday revelers (later we find out there had been a race) and there are no taxis to be found, so, despite being exhausted and half deaf, we trudge all the way home.

    (Irrelevant photo, courtesy of my older daughter)