• in my kitchen: 11:50 a.m.

    *At the kitchen table, my daughter cuts out sugar cookie hearts.
    *Beside her mess sits the cookie cookbook that my younger son pulled out. He, too, wanted to make cookies, but I ignored him and then he got distracted by…
    *My husband installing little shelves in the back of my cupboards, to maximize space and organize our junk.
    *Wait! Wait! Don’t Tell Me! is blasting on the radio and my husband’s drill is whine-screaming. Which means I can’t actually hear Wait! Wait!
    *The beef, onion, garlic, and jalapeno for the evening’s chili is browning on the stove before getting dumped into the waiting crock pot for an afternoon-long simmer.
    *On the cookie sheet atop the stove, the chili ingredients from the freezer: soupy black beans, red beans, corn. I didn’t plan ahead, so I had to thaw them in a warm oven for an hour.
    *On the counter, a bag of maseca flour. Ree introduced me to this chili-enhancing method.
    *Also on the counter, our new toaster, a surprise gift from the in-laws—THANK YOU!!!! It has four slots and a bagel setting. For a good twenty-four hours, it was our main source of entertainment. I even bought a couple bags of bagels so we could have the full toaster experience.
    *On the dining room table, a pile of discarded coats. Because why bother actually putting them away?
    *And also, on the table but out of sight, a pan of cheesy bacon toasts (but with naan instead of bread) for lunch.
    *To the far left, a glimpse of the freshly-organized shoe room.
    *In the microwave, leftover beans reheating for lunch. (They were not a hit with the fambly, so lunch was an angst-ridden affair.)
    *On the kitchen table, lots of weird junk. At some point it disappeared.
    *On the counter, dishes from breakfast and a morning of cooking. After lunch, two kids worked together (not very cheerfully) to wash them all up.

    This same time, years previous: almond cake, Monday blues, digging the ruffles, coconut pudding, pain and agony, and I don’t feel much like writing.

  • in the last ten months

    When I was a kid, my mom made me and my brothers keep lists of the books we read. It was nice to know how we spent our hours and, when people asked for suggestions for good reading material, to have a list at hand. Also, she used the book lists to bulk up her homeschooling records.

    To this day, I still keep a list of all the books I have read, and I make my children do the same. However, up until a year ago, only my older son was reading. Despite being well-beyond the normal age at which children learn to read, my twelve-year-old daughter was not.

    I was, quite naturally, extremely worried (and had been for years—you can read the whole story here), but then, rather suddenly, she began reading. Now, one year later, the tables have turned so wildly that, when I have contemplated sharing her book list, I feel shy. Maybe people will think I’m bragging?

    When I mentioned my hesitation to my friend, she said, “Oh, no, you need to share that list. Remember how you felt a year ago? What would you have wanted to hear back then?”

    And so, for the pulling-her-hair-out worried Me of winter 2014, I share this book list. This, dear mama, is what your daughter-who-can-not-read has read … IN THE LAST TEN MONTHS.

    The Coming of Dragons: the Darkest Age, by A.J. Lake*
    Peter and the Starcatchers, by Dave Barry and Ridley Pearson
    Peter and the Shadow Thieves, by Dave Barry and Ridley Pearson
    Peter and the Secret of Rundoon, by Dave Barry and Ridley Pearson
    The Lightning Thief, by Rick Riordan
    Peter and the Sword of Mercy, by Dave Barry and Ridley Pearson
    The Sea of Monsters, by Rick Riordan
    The Titan’s Curse, by Rick Riordan
    The Battle of the Labyrinth, by Rick Riordan
    Divergent, by Veronica Roth
    The Last Olympian, by Rick Riordan
    Insurgent, by Veronica Roth
    Unwind, by Neal Shusterman
    Unwholly, by Neal Shusterman
    Unsouled, by Neal Shusterman
    The Island Stallion, by Walter Farley
    Allegiant, by Veronica Roth
    The Book of the Sword, by A.J. Lake
    The Black Stallion, by Walter Farley
    Touching Spirit Bear, by Ben Mikaelsen
    Julie of the Wolves, by Jean Craighead George
    The Enormous Egg, by Oliver Butterworth
    Clockwork Angel, by Cassandra Clare
    The Circle of Stone, by A.J. Lake
    Graceling, by Kristin Cashore
    Alcatraz Versus the Evil Librarians, by Brandon Sanderson
    City of Bones, by Cassandra Clare
    Tiger Eyes, by Judy Blume
    Are You There, God? It’s me, Margaret, by Judy Blume
    Twilight, by Stephenie Meyer
    City of Glass, by Cassandra Clare
    Clockwork Prince, by Cassandra Clare
    Clockwork Princess, by Cassandra Clare
    The Lost Hero, by Rick Riordan
    Stargirl, by Jerry Spinelli
    The Son of Neptune, by Rick Riordan
    Here’s To You, Rachel Robinson, by Judy Blume
    The Mark of the Athena, by Rick Riordan
    New Moon, by Stephenie Meyer
    The Thief Lord, by Cornelia Funke
    Mind’s Eye, by Douglas E. Richards
    City of Fallen Angels, by Cassandra Clare
    City of Lost Souls, by Cassandra Clare
    The Maze Runner, by James Dashner
    City of Heavenly Fire, by Cassandra Clare
    Of Mice and Men, by John Steinbeck
    The Fault in our Stars, by John Green
    The Hunger Games, by Suzanne Collins
    The Bane Chronicles, by Cassandra Clare
    The Chocolate War, by Robert Cormier
    I am Number Four, by Pittacus Lore
    The Power of Six, by Pittacus Lore
    The Rise of Nine, by Pittacus Lore
    Fire, by Kristin Cashore
    The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian, by Sherman Alexie

    *In the case of a series, I only linked to the first book in the series.

    ***

    If there is anything I have learned from this list, it’s this:

    Learning readiness is a real thing.
    Ignore arbitrary learning time schedules and trust the child.
    Imposed learning doesn’t hold a candle to the passion that comes from within: watch out.

    This same time, years previous: the quotidian (2.17.14), chicken pot pie, creamed chicken with cheese biscuits, and tortilla pie.

  • the quotidian (2.16.15)

    Quotidian: daily, usual or customary; 
    everyday; ordinary; commonplace



    After a frightfully cold and windy night: 57 degrees in the house.

    Struggling to keep up.

    Cheesy bacon toasts, but with naan instead of bread.

    For the neighbors, with love.

    The open-air studio.

    Hanging out.

    This cuddly little guy has completely won over my non-baby-loving husband.
    Never too old for dress-up and a tea party.
    A new cousin! 

    This same time, years previous: chocolate pudding, Shakespeare in church, sweet, ginger lemon tea, just stuff, food I’ve never told you about, food I’ve never told you about, part two, odd ends, and cleaning up bad attitudes.