• family weekending

    Since my brother and his wife had their second baby back in January, they have come to visit twice.
    My younger brother is the only one in my family who doesn’t live on our Virginia “commune,” so when his family shows up, the weekend turns into an extended family reunion of sorts. For example, People are going over to Mom and Dad’s for soup and sweet rolls? Sure, we’ll come! Or, Does anybody want to come over for Sunday waffles? Yes? EVERYONE?? Alrighty then—it’s a party!

     For this latest weekend visit, my sister-in-law’s mother (who is here from Japan for five weeks of new baby duty) was along for the ride. Saturday night we all got together at my parents’ house for supper (and bacon-wrapped, curried shrimp!) and an evening of singing and holding babies.

    The next morning we went to church (my sister-in-law’s mother’s first-ever Mennonite church service). When our family returned home afterward, she and my sister-in-law and brother were already busy in the kitchen frying up three pounds of sausage and chopping up the peppers for the sausage gravy. They had also brought a bunch of fresh strawberries, a whole rotisserie chicken, and juice. I made a quadruple batch of waffles, a berry sauce, and whipped cream. Aside from one measly cup of rotisserie chicken, there were no leftovers. My family knows how to eat. 

    And then crash-n-nap. At one point when everyone was spread out over the house sleeping, my mom said, “They say it’s the highest compliment when people come to your house and fall asleep.”

    I’m not sure who “they” is, and I’m not sure if that’s true or not, but I’ll take it.

    This same time, years previous: the quotidian (3.10.14), adventuring, now, blondies, and we’re back from seeing the wizard.  

  • the quotidian (3.9.15)

    Quotidian: daily, usual or customary; 
    everyday; ordinary; commonplace



    A snowy frolick: Isaac loved it as much as my daughter did.
    Pathetic and hopeful, or pathetically hopeful.
    Will someone please wipe my face?
    Hovering. 
    Also, THE SNOW IS MELTING.
    Bedhead. 
    Alternate caption: someone needs a haircut.

    Decimating the stack: pancakes with leftover cooked oatmeal and a dash of buckwheat.

    Beans! Beans! Beans!

    Still needs work: oatmeal raisin scones.

    My ever science-loving father stopped by: the (pH testing) evidence. 

    This same time, years previous: work, in which I (attempt to) transform my children into a mob of mini merry maids, creamy potato soup with bacon and boiled eggs, and meatballs.

  • by the skin of my gritted teeth

    I’m about crawling out of my skin. This winter is doing me in. I HAVE HAD IT.

    I like winter. Really, I do! But I like it in December, January, and February. In March? Not so much.

    It’s not just me, being all snow-weary. This last storm, the kids didn’t even go out to play. Not even once. The magic. is. gone. We’re crammed into the house, day after day after day. We go through the motions of eating, reading, studying, fighting, hanging up the laundry on the drying racks, cleaning up, bringing in wood, and going to bed, and then wake up to do it all again the next day. The house feels stale and raggedy. I am sick of being in it.

    But! Starting tomorrow, the temps are supposed to be in the 50’s for seven consecutive days.

    The snow will melt!
    The ground will turn to muddy-mush!
    Green things might sprout!
    We’ll let the fire go out!
    We’ll throw open the windows!
    The kids will run outside in shirtsleeves!
    We’ll wash sheets and hang them on the line!
    I’ll go for walks!

    I can hardly wait. I’m holding on by the skin of my gritted teeth.

    This same time, years previous: oatcakes, banana split ice cream, my OCD indulgence, and a warm (winter!) day.