• on his own

    My brother wants a storage shed, so he asked my older son to build it. This is my son’s first solo building project, and for pay, too. He calculated the costs and then gave my brother an estimate. He placed the order for lumber and had it delivered to our house. And then he started building.

    My husband is being as hands-off as possible with the project. In other words, he stays away. He did show my son how to lay out the floor, and it just so happened that he day before my son was to start framing the walls, my husband re-built a wall at a neighbor’s house and my son was able to watch and learn, and of course my husband fields my son’s many phone calls, but for this project, my son is taking the lead.

    When my husband returns home at the end of the day, I watch from my kitchen window, eager to see his reaction to the latest shed developments. His truck pulls in and then slows to a crawl as he examines the work from the cab. All those years of slap-dash forts that made my husband want to rend his garments and scream? The kid has come a long way.

    When my husband steps out of the truck, he’s smiling.

    This same time, years previous: the quotidian (7.21.14), how to beat the heat, a free-wheeling education, braised cabbage, alfredo sauce, and salvation’s chocolate chip cookies.    

  • the quotidian (7.20.15)

    Quotidian: daily, usual or customary; 
    everyday; ordinary; commonplace


    In their skins: freshly roasted.

    On their way to a potluck: monster cookies.

    Summertime fast food.

    Outside play on a dreary day.

    Because all teenagers like to spend a morning alone playing Banagrams.

    Brilliant: the trick that keeps Charlotte off the picnic table.

    On the hunt.

    After the kill: groundhog tug-of-war. 

    Making do: there is no AC in the van.

    The new driver: Captain Two Hands (and he better keep it that way).
    After the rain.

    This same time, years previous: this new season, a tale of two children, statements, all partied up, whole wheat zucchini bread, in my kitchen (and barn), shrimp with coconut milk. homemade shampoo and conditioner, zucchini-parmesan frittata, and the sex talk.

  • apricot pie

    I realize that apricot season is almost over—I just whirled the last few golden orbs into a smoothie for the kids’ lunch yesterday—but then I saw them in the grocery store so I know they’re still somewhat relevant. And anyway, I keep doing this silly thing called Forgetting That The World’s A Big Place. Our apricots may be done, but yours might just be starting. Amazing, that.

    Actually, I do this all the time. Think egocentrically, I mean. I’m not being selfish, really, just chronically oblivious to the fact that other people have realities that are different from mine. For example, I’ll read something fascinating but then won’t bother to write about it or link to it because I assume that, since I know it, everyone else must already know it, too. If we have fresh tomatoes (!) and no apricots, then such is the state of the world. If my children hit a rough developmental patch between the ages of nine and eleven, then all children must do the same. This probably also explains why I’m repeatedly caught off-guard when people ask me questions about things that seem so normal to me, such as homeschooling. It comes as such a shock that my perceptions are not theirs.

    All this to say: perhaps you have apricots, yes?

    I skimmed through a bunch of apricot pie recipes before coming up with my version. Many of the recipes called for the addition of cinnamon or another fruit such as red raspberries. I’m sure they would all be delicious, but I wanted a straight-up apricot pie, no bells and whistles. This did the trick.

    Apricot Pie 

    1 recipe butter pastry
    5 ample cups thickly-sliced apricots, pitted and unpeeled
    2/3 cup sugar
    ¼ cup thermflo (or cornstarch)
    half-and-half and more sugar, for the topping

    In a large bowl, gently toss the apricots with the sugar and thermflo. Line a 9-inch pie pan with one of the rolled-out pastries. Tumble in the sugar-covered ‘cots. Roll out the second pastry, cut a few air vents in the center with a table knife, and lay it over the fruit. Cut off the extra pastry and crimp the edges together. Brush the top pastry lid with half-and-half and sprinkle liberally with sugar. (I want to try this method next time.)

    Bake the pie at 450 degrees on the bottom oven rack for about 20 minutes. Reduce the heat to 350 degrees and continue to bake for another 20-30 minutes. If the edges start to burn, cover them with some foil. If the juices start to bubble over, slip a piece of foil under the pie plate to catch the drips. 

    Cool completely. Serve plain, or with whipped cream or vanilla ice cream.

    This same time, years previous: the quotidian (7.16.12), roasted beet salad with cumin and mint, Jeni’s best ever vanilla ice cream, pasta with roasted tomatoes and summer squash, bacon-wrapped breadsticks, counting chicks, what’s it worth?, and chit-chat.