This same time, years previous: boys in beds, Scandinavian sweet buns, the quotidian (1.11.16), sourdough crackers, cranberry bread, the quotidian (1.13.14), Guatemala!, sticky toffee pudding, rum raisin shortbread.
- Quotidian: daily, usual or customary;everyday; ordinary; commonplace
Lunch for one.Doughball.Sleepyheads.Cutting up.Find dead mouse, look like dead mouse.Who let the dogs in, woof.Moo-love.Ice water.Repairs.Snowsnaps.Green screen.Tabletalk.Music makers.Double.The sky that broke Facebook.Home. full house
Back in the fall, Rolando called to ask if our guest room would be available in January — he’d be coming to the valley to return Glorianne, his older daughter, to college and to attend the STAR program.
But of course, we said.
Before Christmas, he called again to say that Kathy, his younger daughter, would be also coming, just for fun. Great! we said. And then last Wednesday he called yet again to say that now Glorimar, his wife, would be joining them. “Aaaand,” I could hear the laughter in his voice, “my sister and her husband are going to come, too.”
“Awesome!” I said, and then I paused. “But, um, where will they sleep?“
“In the guest room with us, of course,” Rolando said, as though that were the most obvious thing in the world.
People, our guest room is plenty serviceable, but big it most definitely not. However, these were Puerto Ricans we were dealing with, and if Puerto Ricans have a superpower, it’s flexibility. So taking my cues from them, I went with it.
When they pulled in Sunday evening, they came bearing sacks of groceries — juice, lunch meats, avocados and bananas, bread, butter, frozen pizzas, cheeses, salad mix, iced tea, chips, and on and on and on — and a double bed air mattress.
The two couples set up camp in the guest room, and the two sisters in my younger daughter’s closet-sized bedroom, sharing a twin.
Funny story: Rolando did not tell his wife that Johanna and Eliot, who live in Florida, would be joining them, so Glorimar was thrilled when they showed up in the Orlando airport to, she thought, just say hi. But then Elliot produced their plane tickets and Joanna announced that they’d be joining them in Virginia — SURPRISE.
The week has been amazingly relaxing. Rolando attended his classes, the rest of his family often joining him for lunch and then spending the afternoon in town and the evening at home with us.
before supper
after supperhugs: just for anyhow, and oftenMornings I wrote, as usual, and towards the end of the week, after my cough subsided and I regained my voice, I started running again.
Afternoons, I cooked.
karate pie
photo credit and title: RolandoSince they are so easy to please and over-the-top appreciative, cooking for our guests — or extended family, really — has been gratifying. I’m milking it for all it’s worth: taco salad, meatloaf, sourdough bread, apple pies, Farmer Boy pancakes, lentil sausage soup, hot buttered rolls, granola, homemade pappardelle and ragu, roasted veggies, sweet rolls, chocolate chip cookies, baked oatmeal.
A couple days after they arrived, the weather turned cold.
On Friday afternoon, the kids went skiing and snowboarding, and then yesterday a storm swept in. Glorimar and I went for a snowy walk to my parents’ house last evening (we each hit the ground at least once).
Now this morning, I’m sitting on the sofa, listening to all the reactions as people wake up: lots of squeals and yips and happy dances, video phone calls to folks back home and photos, tentative excursions out into the bright whiteness.
Fresh snow is always exciting, but add a half dozen Puerto Ricans to the mix and it’s pure magic.
This same time, years previous: just for sparkles, marching, homemade lard, our little dustbunnies, breaking the fruitcake barrier, what it means, date nut bread, roll and twist.
the Baer Family Gathering of 2019
I rallied in time for our trip to Pennsylvania for our Annual Baer Family Reunion. Our family went up a day early — we wanted to visit my grandparents before heading to our host home — so I was relieved to be feeling so much better. I sure didn’t want to be guilty of contaminating the elderly.
But then on the trip up, my older daughter came down with a fever.
So much for good intentions.
See? Too sick to even smile straight.Then that night, just when I thought I was home free, I developed a cough. Between my coughing and my husband’s hacking (he’d already been smitten), sleep was nearly impossible.
At our host home — my cousin-slash-girlfriend’s enormous old farmhouse that all my childrenare deeply enchanted with — celebrating her oldest child’s thirteenth birthday.Answer me this: Why is it that it’s exactly when one is ill, when the body most needs to sleep, that it can’t? It makes no sense!
Then halfway through the next day, smack-dab in the middle of our noonday reunion feast, I lost my voice.
I felt fine, but there I was, stuck in a crowd of people unable to ask questions and respond — an extrovert’s version of hell. Whenever I did try to speak, it was like I’d created a black hole: everyone stopped talking while straining to catch my whispered wisps of words. The first person to understand would triumphantly repeat what I’d said, and once again the room would be bubbling with chatter and noise.
Even with my ailments, the weekend was loads of fun.
There was the Baer Foot Race complete with lots of slipping, thanks to the buckets of rain they’d been having.
My odd child jumped in the creek again.
Without a thick layer of ice, it wasn’t nearly as dramatic, but he claims the water felt even colder than last year since the outside temps were warmer.
The food was tremendous, as usual: incredible sourdough bread (that I am trying to replicate), ham, cheeses and meats, pies, jams from Mavis, and so on.
There were babies to hold…
…and games to play…
challenge: to see who can pick up the longest line of blocks…and heights to measure…
… and conversations to just listen to, gah.
And then we drove home, arriving just in time to unpack and get showers before our Puerto Rican friends arrived, kicking off a nine-day vacay.
The end!
Our chauffeur for the entire weekend.Now that he has contacts, he’s super excited to once again wear sunglasses.This same time, years previous: high-stakes hiking, Christmas cheese, high on the hog, how we kicked of 2016, 5-grain porridge with apples, when cars dance, the quotidian (1.6.14), headless chickens, cranberry sauce, buckwheat apple pancakes.