• the quotidian (4.2.12)

    Quotidian: daily, usual or customary;
    everyday; ordinary; commonplace

    the kids dug up the bottles in our field and picked the tulips from the abandoned lot across the road (which they’re not allowed to do but did anyway)

    springtime supper: biscuits, sausage-cheese sauce, asparagus, and boiled eggs (cooking tip: to make a cheese sauce even cheesier, whisk a generous lump of cream cheese into the sauce before adding the other cheeses, yum)

    waiting for Grandmommy and Grandaddy

    after Grandmommy and Grandaddy drove on by without stopping: it was the plan but apparently my little boy was the only one who didn’t know it

    studying a food web after breakfast with their biologist Grandfather: my parents found a bunch of high school textbooks for me to use (history, literature, science, algebra)—so far we’ve just started the biology

    a pedicure from Grandmommy

    sometimes my kitchen help looks a little odd

    after coloring a map of the United States (one of her assignments), she went up to her room and cut the shape of our country out of some fabric, backed it, and wrote some of the states on it with marker

    this is what our evening read-aloud time looks like: me reading out loud while all the kids (except for my son since he’s the only literate one) pore over their own “reading” material

    a friend from church asked me to run some of his parched corn through my grain mill and then he brought me a loaf of mush he made with it—both my husband and I love it, the kids not so much

    Watching the horses: the scene looks peaceful and romantic, but look again. The child in the middle is getting ready to discreetly pinch the boy.

    Who says each kid needs their own bike? That’s a myth. 
    (They’ve since figured out how to fit all four kids on one bike.)

    After watching the four deer that were in our field (a very unusual occurrence) jump over the fence and thinking the one had lost his tail on the fence, my daughter went up to retrieve it—but it was just a handful of fur. (And then, almost as soon as she got back to the house, we saw eight more deer up there and the kids went wild.)

    making a pot of “soup”

    Our yard is full of thistles. Each spring I dig them up by the wheelbarrow (or orange, plastic sled) load. It’s an exercise in futility since we’re surrounded by fields of thistles, but I do it anyway.

    the potatoes are planted

    bales of straw ready for the garden

    skywalking from shed roof to straw bale

    This same time, years previous: my excuse

  • warning: this will make your eyes hurt

    I’m serious. There are some unpleasant pictures ahead. Proceed with caution.

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    Yesterday my boy had another one of his allergic reactions—the kind where the white part of his eye turns yellow and mushy and swells up to huge proportions. The episode was fairly mild. I put in a couple eye drops and everything was fine.

    This afternoon it happened again. I didn’t rush or anything since we got it under control so fast yesterday. Plus, I wondered if a cold washcloth would do the trick (his eye was improving by the time we got to the ER last year and we had only used a wet hankie).

    But the eye kept growing and he kept fussing and begging to go to the ER.

    And then I took a good look at him and said, “Oh my!” and sent my older daughter out to go get my husband.

    Putting the eye drops in was an ordeal because he refused to cooperate even when we offered an ice cream bribe. And then we got stressed because the eye was swelling and swelling and swelling and we needed to act NOW. So we tried to pin him down. But that failed because 1) the kid can fight like a demon, and 2) neither of us was keen on prying open a squeezed-shut, mushy-gushy eyeball. So we let him up and then, wouldn’t you know, he went and stood in the hallway and tilted his head back and let me put the drops in (the same ones I used yesterday), no problem at all. He even smiled. He begged me to take more pictures.

    excuse the blurriness, but I just wanted you to see what a trooper he is

    He ate his ice cream and was happy.

    Except his eye kept getting bigger and bigger.

    Then we found another eye drop medicine in the medicine cabinet, but I didn’t have directions or details since we had long since thrown the boxes out. So I looked up information online about the eye drops that we had already used, but the only stuff I could find was talking about ears. Which was weird because that wasn’t what we were dealing with. So I called the pharmacist.

    Him: Hmm, are the drops up to date?

    Me: Yes.

    Him: Tell me again the name of the medicine?

    Me: It’s called Ciprodex, and the print is so small I can hardly read it, but I think it says it’s a sterile otic suspension—

    Him: What’s the middle word?

    Me: Otic. O-T-I-C…

    Him: THOSE ARE EAR DROPS! YOU DON’T WANT TO PUT THOSE IN HIS EYES!

    Oh. So “otic” is not the same thing as “optic.” Interesting.

    We did the drops all over again, but this time with eye drops instead of ear drops. And this time the swelling actually started to go down.

    Now my boy is curled up beside me on the sofa, staring at his eye with a handheld mirror.

    It’s still quite puffy, especially the part underneath the eye (which he likes to poke), but it’s slowly improving.

    And yes, I’ll be calling the allergist in the morning.

    Sweet dreams, y’all! May your night be free of protruding eyeball nightmares!

    This same time, years previous: three stories, oven fries